Power Up

Be still, and know that I am God. Psalm 46:10

We cannot operate properly if we don't take time to be still and plug into our power source. Our source is God, the omnipotent, all powerful, Creator of the heavens and the earth. The sovereign God is the source of our strength.

In this day and age, we are constantly using our smartphones. We use them to talk, text, take notes, take pictures, videos, etc. As we go through the day, our phone goes with us. It stays on the go. But eventually with all that we do on our phones, the battery starts to run down. That's when we have to put the phone is a stationary place, plug it in and recharge it so that we can continue to use it to do all that we do.

The same with us physically and spiritually. Our spiritual batteries get run down. We need to get still and plug into our power source. We can't operate on the run. We have to sit down and recognize where our strength comes from, plug into Him, listen to Him for wisdom, guidance, direction and discernment.We can't operate and fulfill our purpose if we don't take time to be still.In order to recharge, you need to be still.

Spend time in prayer and God's Word. It will give you the power you need to live.

Complete in Christ

A reminder to the ladies especially: You are fearfully and wonderfully made. You don't have to be jealous or feel less than your sisters. God has blessed you with gifts and has created you fearfully and wonderfully on purpose with a purpose.

"So you also are complete through your union with Christ, who is the head over every ruler and authority." Colossians 2:10

A Lesson for Our Children

A Message to Our Daughters

These Are the Good Old Days

These are the good old days.

Savor the moment. Appreciate. Congratulate. Celebrate.

Love deeply. Forgive quickly. Keep moving forward deliberately.

Make memories for these are the good old days.

Laugh loudly.

Pray sincerely.

Give generously.

Don't look back with regret but forward with hope.

Read voraciously. Learn every day.

Stay positive. Avoid negative.

Stop.

Slow down. Take in the moment.

Say "I love you" often. Give compliments freely.

Read God's Word daily and live it consistently.

Take lots of pictures.

Spend time with elders. Record their stories. Preserve this history. Spend time with family.

For these are the good old days.

Sick and Tired

I am so sick and tired of hashtags.

Hashtags that announce or chronicle another tragedy.

 I am sick and tired of young mothers being raped and shot in the head. I am sick and tired of little boys like Tyshawn being shot in their heads, their little bodies riddled with bullets . I’m tired of young men dying in the street, their bodies full of bullet holes. Fathers dying,  their life being choked out of them.

 I am tired of young women visiting their grandmother dying of gunshot wounds while walking to a bus stop to go home. Young people with promise cut down by ignorance.

I’m tired of Tyesa Cherrys dying after going to a movie, killed by a bullet meant for someone else. I am sick of grandmothers, pastors and college students at bible studies being shot down in their own church. I’m sick and tired of young men going into elementary schools, college classrooms and movie theaters and randomly shooting and killing.

Seeing Red About Starbucks Cups

I hear that some Christians are upset that Starbucks cups are red. The ubiquitous café has chosen a simple red cup for the holiday months. Apparently some Christians feel Starbucks has declared “war on Christmas” because their holiday cups usually have a snowflake or some other holiday symbol on the cup.

These Christians reportedly are "seeing red" (becoming very angry) over Starbucks cups. I read one post where it said that Christians were encouraged to say that their name is Merry Christmas so the barista will have to say the abolished words when they fix their drink.

I hear Republican presidential candidate Donald Trump has even weighed in on the matter, suggesting a Starbucks boycott and if he became president everyone will be saying “Merry Christmas” at every Starbucks.

Wow.

From the Editor: Pain to Purpose

Have you ever been in pain? I mean real pain. Maybe it was physical pain. A constant ache that will not go away and nothing will alleviate. Maybe it is an emotional pain. Have you ever felt a stab in your heart that although no one has touched you physically you feel it in your chest and you understand why they call it a broken heart?

The pain of divorce or an unfaithful spouse. The pain of a wayward child. The pain of disappointment, rejection or depression. The deep pain of longing for a child and month after month the pregnancy test showing no pink line. The pain of longing for a spouse, someone to share your life with and to come home to instead of emptiness and loneliness. The pain of the death of a loved one.

Pain is a part of life. Pain is a part of the process.

We’re all in process. A process is a series of actions, changes or functions bringing about a result. Process is also defined as progress. God  has a purpose for the process. He is perfecting you. He has begun a good work in you and He’s going to complete it. (Philippians 1:6)

But  the process is painful. It doesn’t feel good. It hurts. But there’s a purpose for your pain. Just like the pains of childbirth produce the promise of a long awaited baby, your pain is giving birth to something God has placed in you. Your pain is going to produce his purpose, “for it is God who works in you to will and to act according to his good purpose.” Philippians 2:13.

Sexual Healing

A prominent Chicago area pastor has been accused of sexually molesting a young lady who came to him for counseling. He has been charged and will have his day in court to deny or confess to the allegations. Published reports say that a confession was recorded by the victim and her mother. Published reports also say that the pastor made a "positive disclosure" to a detective that was consistent with the girl's story. We shall see. Innocent until proven guilty.

Unfortunately, I do not find it hard to believe that it is possible.

I know so many victims and stories of victims of those molested and raped--some right in the house of God-- by ministers, deacons, Sunday School teachers, fathers, stepfathers, stepmothers, and mothers who were supposed to be watching over their souls and instead violated them. Not just Catholic priests, but Baptist, Pentecostal and evangelical pastors who were representative of God to children who instead molested and raped them.

It’s an ugly thing to deal with and so often we don’t. We are dismayed at the downfall of a leader instead of tending to the sheep who have been mutilated.

I pray for the victims. For their healing. For their recovery from the egregious damage done, especially when someone in spiritual authority abuses that authority.

Too often, we show more care and concern for the perpetrator than the victim. The victim of the crime is left to the side and given the side eye, questioned and doubted, even as a child.

Do false accusations happen? No doubt. But there are also cases where by confession or other means, we know that a crime has been committed. And there are so many cases that are never reported.

Does the perpetrator of the crime need prayer, forgiveness, healing and restoration? Yes. But let’s focus on the victim first. They are the ones who have been harmed and wounded. Some have suffered and never recovered. Their view of God forever skewed by the evil trespass done against them.

The Enemy operates in darkness. I pray that God pulls the cover off and reveals those who are hurting his children so that others will not fall victim and those who have suffered will be able to start to heal. I also pray that the Church would help those who have been abused to heal.

In the Spring 2013 issue of the Well Magazine, an article dealing with healing from sexual abuse and the church was published entitled Sexual Healing.

One in four women and one in six men are or will be victims of sexual assault in their lifetime. Someone in the pew at church sitting next to you may have been a victim of rape. Maybe you suffered sexual violence or violation.